When we can take full responsibility for where we are, the choices that we made, the people we choose, the lost opportunities that we missed...
When we take full responsibility for where our health is, where our body is...
When we take full responsibility for our habits, our beliefs, our patterns....
Then and only then can we change them, transform them into powerful forces in our life, forces that work FOR us, not AGAINST us.
"The situation you are in today is the result of whatever you were thinking about yesterday, and 1,000 yesterdays before.
Change it up today and you will create a better tomorrow." - Russ Ruffino.
When you set a goal, things need to change for you to get there, so be solution oriented. And do the change with as little suffering as possible. Process the emotional side (yes, draw it into you, don't resist it), then LET IT GO.
Then look ahead at the opportunity the challenge is offering up. Problems are necessary, and are opportunities to steer you toward success.
Your problems are never bigger than you. You created them, so how can they be bigger than you?
Every great business owner, wealthy person, successful entrepreneur, sees challenges and problems as opportunities for growth. And they move into them, knowing this, looking for a solution.
So let's not bury our 'stuff' in a bowl of Ben and Jerry's ice cream, or go crazy on the weekend, or snack after dinner....because it is just keeping us in Child energy, stuck and away from the possibility of growth and change.
Be a Solution Slayer, baby!
XO!