I lived unconsciously for years, thinking 'it's all good. I have a good education, money in the bank, a decent marriage, a nice kid, I survived childhood trauma, thank you very much", but as I aged, I felt more lonely, more distant than ever...time does that to you.

 

I remember driving home from my cushy government job where I made great money, had great beenfits, I was driving my hot car, I had the best skis and winterwear in the back, driving to my great house...I was 34 years old.

 

And I distinctly remember feeling a deep 'thud' in my solar plexus (your powerpoint, self esteem area), and saying to myself 'Is this all there is?"

 

 

And in that moment, everything changed....because I decided to change....

 

So I ask you, who are you? You're a mother, daughter, wife, business owner, employee, retiree...

 

But these are 'roles', they are not who you are.

 

For half of my life, I was living at ground level...doing what is expected of me...shop, work, mother, wife, make dinner, care for others...

 

But at some point I began to ask 'what's that hole I feel, and why is that still there, after all these years...?

 

Money, status, ageing, holidays...it doesn't really fill that hole. Sure, for a bit, but then, it slips away as we fall into 'normal' again.

 

Today, I live at the 30,000 foot view, and this is what I teach others. It requires climbing that mountain to reach the sunshine, and to truly see things in a 360 degree panoramic view. And the view is pretty incredible...

 

I don't always stay there...as humans, it's nearly impossible, but now I se the slips, catch the patterns, question the conditioning that has me saying 'thats just who I am'. No it's not, it's who I chose to be and what I decided my beliefs were a loooong time ago.

 

But it was time to grow up. So I shut off the podcasts, closed the self help books and did the REAL work. That was when my life started ti shift, really shift.

 

See, life is meant to be lived, deeply, with your passion and vision leading the way. And knowing what matters and Why you are Here, on planet earth, and knowing what comes next....

 

It's not your 'roles' that define you, it's Who You are Meant to Be that rules the day. And that is the deeper yearning, I see in women  every day in person, on social media...a looking, wondering, wanting more.. 

 

Let's walk that path together. Let's discover new worlds, unlock new stories, and let go of outdated beliefs and patterns that have kept oyu from your Full Self for decades...